Comments on: Sex assault and consent http://lawiscool.com/2009/11/09/sex-assault-and-consent/?nucrss=1 The law school blog and podcast from Canada Tue, 16 Mar 2010 19:40:14 -0400 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Laura http://lawiscool.com/2009/11/09/sex-assault-and-consent/comment-page-1/#comment-7199 Laura Mon, 09 Nov 2009 17:32:41 +0000 http://lawiscool.com/?p=2227#comment-7199 ""The next time a situation occurs like this, walk away from it," advised provincial court Justice Minoo Khoorshed. "You cannot say, 'I thought she consented.' Rather you must say, 'I know she consented.'." the judge said." So the judge is stating the offender did not know whether or not there was consent, yet acquits him anyway? This is a pretty disgusting case of victim blaming and an example of how rape culture pervades every aspect of society. To say she could have attracted attention to what was happening is a classic victim blaming script and not resisting is a common element in rape, it's a strategy to prevent further harm. It's not up to the victim to draw attention to what's happening and get help, it's up to offenders not to rape and up to the legal system to hold them accountable when they do. Consenting to making out is not consenting to sex. You have a right to say no to any act at any time. If your partner does not respect that no, that's rape. The most disturbing part of this case is the thought of this officer dealing with a sexual assault survivor. Is he going to believe her? For more information on what rape culture is, check out http://shakespearessister.blogspot.com/2009/10/rape-culture-101.html “”The next time a situation occurs like this, walk away from it,” advised provincial court Justice Minoo Khoorshed. “You cannot say, ‘I thought she consented.’ Rather you must say, ‘I know she consented.’.” the judge said.”

So the judge is stating the offender did not know whether or not there was consent, yet acquits him anyway?

This is a pretty disgusting case of victim blaming and an example of how rape culture pervades every aspect of society. To say she could have attracted attention to what was happening is a classic victim blaming script and not resisting is a common element in rape, it’s a strategy to prevent further harm.

It’s not up to the victim to draw attention to what’s happening and get help, it’s up to offenders not to rape and up to the legal system to hold them accountable when they do.

Consenting to making out is not consenting to sex. You have a right to say no to any act at any time. If your partner does not respect that no, that’s rape.

The most disturbing part of this case is the thought of this officer dealing with a sexual assault survivor. Is he going to believe her?

For more information on what rape culture is, check out http://shakespearessister.blogspot.com/2009/10/rape-culture-101.html

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